On taking a month off

Being independent gave me an opportunity I didn't think I'd otherwise have.

When I was considering starting my life as an independent consultant, one of things that appealed to me was being in total control of my own time. I’ve already made the most of this with my young children in mind, either taking planned time off around school holidays, or things like sports days, as well as having flexibility if they are off school unexpectedly. One thing I had in mind though was taking longer summer breaks. 

Before having children, my wife and I lived in New York City. We moved back to be closer to family as we were about to have our own. We wanted that experience, but without the upheaval of relocating, visas, changing jobs and schools - and we thought making the most of the kids 6 week summer break could offer some of that. This year we did just that, spending 3 weeks in Southern California, seeing friends who live that way, as well as adventures ourselves. We also had some work done to our house while we were away, which needed some “wrap around” time off making up the rest of the month. 

Could I have done this whilst in a full-time role? Maybe, I’m not sure. I likely would have found it hard to even ask for a month off, and I think I might have found it hard to disconnect in the way I could do when I work for myself.  Of course, not working means not earning; but that was my own decision, an option and a freedom which I choose to take. I wouldn’t change that. 

The trip we took meant I could catch up with friends, some of which I’ve known for over 20 years now. So great to see you and spend some quality time together JT, Steve, Shannon, Nigel and Britney.